Motivational Wednesday

The quality of your thinking defines the quality of your life. If you constantly think negative and that it takes to long to accomplish your goal you’ll never get to where you want to be. Will there be bumps in the road and will you think of quitting? Sure you will, but never giving up and always thinking positive will pay off. I’ve been down in the dumps before and thought of stopping everything that I’ve put my heart into. There has to be this inner fight within you to push forward. Many people I know have failed time after time. Shit, I have failed so I can say I’ve been there before. Whether it’s in business, school, a relationship or a career, you have to stay positive and be the best in whatever you do. For example, if you’re a car salesman and your having a bad month or a bad year selling, make it a point to adjust and dig deep down and improve your skills. Make sure you’re the best fucking car salesman on the face of the earth. Study up on your craft, observe and learn from others; do what you have to do in order to master your craft but most importantly find that inner strength to remain positive! 

Motivational Tuesday

Instead of following and subduing yourself to negative people, standing alone and concentrating on “You” is your best option. How many times do you follow the crowd and stick with the group you’re in? Does that particular crowd benefit you? Are they positive? Do they take you away from your goals? If the answer is yes to any of these, it’s time to go about your business alone. You’re better off in the long run. Is it sometimes hard to leave the crowd that you’ve been accustomed to for years and years? Yes. Will you be better off without them to focus on “You”? YES! 

Don’t be a sitting duck around the crew you hang with just to fit in. It’s time to make a change. For the better. You don’t need those colleagues or friends that hurt your chances to achieve your goals. Let them drink their beer and talk shit about you after you leave. Fuck them. You don’t need them and you’ll see over time that you’ve made the right decision. 

Motivational Monday

Everyone one way or another is given talents in certain areas. Most successful people work their assess off to get where they want to be. Hard work leads to success whether you want to believe it or not. Hard work pays off. How in the world can you be lazy, non committed and not have the desire to succeed and expect to become successful? You can’t. When you bust your ass day in and day out, good things will happen. Your hard work WILL pay off. It may not pay off in a month or a a year or even 5 years; but great things will come. The question is, when you put the work in and success doesn’t happen right away, will you continue to achieve success? Majority of people will say fuck it and give up. Don’t be that person. 

The harder you work, the more time you put in to achieve your goals, the more success you will obtain. Period. 

Motivational Thursday

Be the type of person who doesn’t care what others think about you. If you put any amount of thought into what others think of you, you are wasting valuable time that you’ll never ever get back. There’s going to be people that hate and dislike you until the day you die. It’s part of who we are as humans. Jealousy and hate will always come into play but you have to ignore and walk away from it. There’s a reason why people talk shit about you. 

Now, the person who reports back to you and says, “This one was talking shit about you”, why did they tell you this knowing you are my friend? You don’t think that person won’t come back and tell you what they said? A true friend would put that asshole in his place that did talk shit about you. Why did they feel so comfortable telling you those things? It may be time to evaluate who your “so called friend” really is that reported back to you that someone was talking shit about you.  I don’t want to hear what they said, because I don’t care, I wanna know why they felt like they can say that shit about me in front of you. 

It’s like a grade school gossip circle. Bottom line, know who your friends really are and disregard the other haters that talk shit. You’re better off without them as they belong with their heads face down in the fucking toilet. 

Motivational Wednesday

Don’t cross an ocean for someone who won’t cross a puddle for you. You give and you get. If you’re putting yourself in a position doing generous things for someone whether it’s a friend or colleague at work and not getting the dedication in return, then fuck them. They don’t deserve the favors or generosity your giving them so do not replicate. Your wasting your time and they don’t belong in your life. I’ve seen many situations in which I myself have given my ALL for someone and they never return the favor. They are using you and you need to have the awareness that this is happening. When you find that person who will cross an ocean for you then you have a “true friend”. A friendship, relationship or marriage works both fucking ways. You give it your all, they give it right back to you. Those are the people you can count on and never forget that. 

Motivational Tuesday

We all want to fit in and be very well liked in every facet of this world. Putting in time, energy and commitment to a friendship or with colleagues at work can be difficult. When the respect of others is diminishing you have to realize through awareness that it’s time to get up and fucking leave. Realize who is important in your life and who is not. If your getting isolated and not in the “mix” get up and leave. Find other people that you can surround yourself with that makes you happy. As humans, we all don’t get along and that’s fine. But when your sticking around, trying to fit in and most importantly not getting the respect you deserve, get out. Move the fuck on and go find happiness elsewhere. We only live one life and you have to spend time with people who want you in their life. As soon as you realize that the time has come to walk away from others that don’t respect you, the better your life will become. Make the right decision and give your attention, love and respect to other’s and fuck those people as there’s a reason why they go through a new set of friends ever three years. Don’t be a leach and hang on, get up and find happiness somewhere else.