Motivational Thursday

The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it. 

Enough with the whining, moaning and bitching on how you can’t do something. When you want to accomplish something special, you need to put in the work. You need to stay in on Friday nights while your bro’s are out drinking crafty’s. It’s all about how much you want it. Do you want to make a healthy living and provide for your family? Do you want nice vacations and rive nice cars and have financial security for the rest of your life? If you aspire for these things there’s no other option except to work hard and quit the complaining. It starts upstairs in your noggin and you MUST convince yourself that you can do anything if you put the time in. 

Motivational Wednesday

You’ll find an incredible amount of freedom when you learn to not take things personally.

When you decide that people’s opinion about what you do or say, should not be your concern and you’ll find life gets easier. You need to stay focused on what is important to you and not to anyone else. Surround yourself with like minded people who support each other in every way. Level up your game and make sure that you are happy with what you do in life. People and so called “haters” will always try and road block you in many ways. They are jealous, they are selfish and more importantly they are nobodies. Is it hard to walk away from someone saying shit about you? Fuck ya it is. But here’s the thing. When you start hearing things about you in a negative way and people start saying shit that pisses you off, you have to understand your succeeding. Your doing something right and your working your ass off. People tend to get jealous all the time of other’s success and it’s almost a good thing that people are saying shit about you. You know you’ve made it when you have people talking shit. Keep to your goals and keep in the back of your mind that you won’t listen to those people and eventually you’ll curb stomp the fuck out of them. 

Motivational Tuesday

 I respect those who tell me the truth no matter how hard it is.

You have a choice in life, to be a person of character or to be a coward. People with character tell the truth and can stand their own in the face of opposition. While cowards are snakes, liars and people who blame everyone else but themselves. And that is a sheep mentality. A real person tells the truth and aren’t afraid who hears it. Be a person who tells the truth and you’ll either create an enemy for no reason or receive a tremendous amount of respect. The way the world is today, everything is sugar coated in this fairy land. People are so fucking sensitive and afraid to get their feelings hurt. I’m the type of person who tells it how it is no matter what. Why hold back? Why beat around the bush? And if I do something wrong or say the wrong thing, then tell me. I’ll respect you more and understand where you’re coming from. Everyone makes mistakes and fucks up (me included) so people need to hear the truth, otherwise they will continue to make the wrong decisions. Be a person who tells the truth, you’ll thank yourself in the long run. 

Motivational Monday

Don’t let someone rent space in your head if they’re not paying the rent.

Don’t let negative minded people occupy your mind. Every minute we spend thinking about what’s wrong in our lives, we’re not seeing what’s possible. Surround yourself with success minded people who talk about great opportunities for success. negative people will be a cancer in your life and you need to learn to steer clear of them. There’s a reason why they are so negative. You know they are not happy with their lives and all they try to do is take you down with them. Fuck those people and leave them alone to be even more negative. Never give up on your dream and believe that anything is possible. 

Motivational Thursday

If you lose a friend because you’re honest, it wasn’t a good friend. 

I’m really sick and tired of people who are either dishonest or won’t tell it like it is. Enough with this “beat around the bush” bullshit talk. Whatever the situation is, tell the truth to your friend. They need to hear it. I love it when my close friends tell me the god’s honest truth and not sugar coating it. Whether I said or did something wrong, tell me the truth! Come at me and I typically am very thankful for them telling me how it is. It makes me a better person and this way I can learn from it more importantly. 

If the tables are turned and you tell them the truth and they can’t handle it then they must not be as close as a friend that you thought. What is the point of beating around the bush and not telling someone who you care for the truth? Why lie? What good is it? From now on, be honest, tell the truth and a good friend will accept it and more importantly respect you for being honest. 

Motivational Wednesday

When people treat you like they don’t care. Believe them. 

Simple as that. Stop trying to fit into a click to make friends or if colleagues are stand offish to you at work believe them. They obviously, don’t want you around. Maybe your boss doesn’t like you or they could care less to speak to you. Good. Do your work, bust your ass and fucking leave. Everyday. Go home to other’s who appreciate you. Life is to short to seek other’s out for a relationship or friendship and when you realize they don’t care move the F on. There’s a reason they choose to not be friendly and you don’t need to know why. Who gives a shit. There’s over 35 billion people on god’s green Earth, and if there’s a handful of people who choose to treat you like shit, then move on and spend time with other’s who care. Sooner rather than later, those people will realize they have no one in their circle. It is what it is and you don’t need to be involved. You’re a better person than them and you deserve to be happy and wanted. Period.