I feel like this is such a dead beat topic and I almost wasn’t going to post it. 

Guys, the beers and cocktails will always be there. I’m sick and tired of hearing how unhappy people are. How they don’t have this and that. Then, I see Instagram stories that they’re at the bar and toasting to the good life. You don’t want it. You really don’t. If you did, you’d be working and staying low key. The beers and the toasting come when you accomplish your goal. 

Now, this doesn’t mean you can’t go out on occasion because you need some down time to unwind, myself included. Or, you can continue to go out and piss money away but I better not hear you complain and bitch and moan that you’re dead broke and you want what others have. 

Really, how much will you fight? When you get knocked down will you get up and fight? What happens when some people start mocking you and thinking your plan will never work? Will you ignore those toxic people and fight for what you believe in? I was personally ridiculed for starting a bobblehead business and I got all the comments in the world. You’re a grown man selling toys, you blog about little dolls blah, blah, blah. I chose to ignore all that riff raff and block those people out for good. And till this day, I’m still fighting and ignoring those jealous mother fuckers. I never back down and never will. What will you do? 

It’s very easy to dream. It’s even easier to set a goal for yourself. And now comes the hardest part which is taking action. 

You have to be realistic. You can’t dream of driving a Ferrari one day by selling pencils in the corner hallway at your local high school. You have to be reasonable. You have to know what you want to do and how your going to do it. Create a map or plan of attack. Look at 5 or 10 years down the road. How will you make money? How much money will you put forth into your investment? You have to calculate all of these things before you take any action. 

A lot of businesses fail because or poor planning. Do yourself a favor, make sure your dream is reasonable, set a precise calculated goal then go out and execute. 

I have no secret. Yes, I have a lot of bobbleheads and I throw out content like a mother f’er, but I work hard. I work when my kids go to bed. I forgo going out and pounding 8 craft beers and instead I work my face off. Shit takes time and a lot of effort. I have no secret. My secret is I work. Plain and simple. Do you see any other bobblehead bloggers and bobblehead content pushers out there? No. I’m it. And I plan on only being it. While other’s are jerking off to stupid meaningless shit, I’m grinding my ass off and the results are seen. There’s way to many people that want it, but won’t think of putting in the time. 

WORK, WORK WORK! 

Was it a bad day, or was it a bad 5 minutes you milked all day?

Was your day running smooth and little Suzie made a rude comment towards you? Did you not get a A- instead of a B+ on your mid term? Stop letting one thing bother you for the remaining hours of the day and overcome that mishap. If you let the tiny things bother you and drag the negative shit with you all day, you’ll never be successful. 

Positivity always wins.

You never get anywhere in life being negative. If you ever need a favor or a break through on a project and you seek other’s out, it’s imperative that you be positive. How can you call a company and want to help them market if your a douche and always negative? It won’t work. Positivity always and will forever win.