When people treat you like they don’t care. Believe them. 

Simple as that. Stop trying to fit into a click to make friends or if colleagues are stand offish to you at work believe them. They obviously, don’t want you around. Maybe your boss doesn’t like you or they could care less to speak to you. Good. Do your work, bust your ass and fucking leave. Everyday. Go home to other’s who appreciate you. Life is to short to seek other’s out for a relationship or friendship and when you realize they don’t care move the F on. There’s a reason they choose to not be friendly and you don’t need to know why. Who gives a shit. There’s over 35 billion people on god’s green Earth, and if there’s a handful of people who choose to treat you like shit, then move on and spend time with other’s who care. Sooner rather than later, those people will realize they have no one in their circle. It is what it is and you don’t need to be involved. You’re a better person than them and you deserve to be happy and wanted. Period.