You’re not missing out on anything when you’re getting your shit together.
Oh, so you miss out a few Friday happy hours when Charlene is talking about her recent divorce. Who gives a shit. Oh, so you miss out on 3 straight weeks of Thursday night softball. You’ll find out the next day that Harold went 3-4 with 5 ribbies. Who gives a shit. Oh, so you miss the last 4 episodes of Game of Thrones. DRV that shit!
Get your shit together and save that nonsense social life for when you’re secure and happy! Softball will always be there. Christ, you can play softball until your 50 if you’re in the right shape. Focus on getting your shit together and forgo the petty bullshit.